Continuing on my 2011 personal mission to remind people of the control they have over their own happiness…remember that you don’t have to allow negative people in your life to influence you. Give yourself distance from them if they’re family members or work associates, and certainly don’t have them in your circle of friends. It is OK, and healthy, to cut off relationships with friends who do nothing but drain you and create negativity in your life.
And…a stressor in life, especially for women, is being indecisive. When confronted with a choice, consider your options briefly, and then make a decision. (Major life decisions may take a bit more thought) We expend too much time and energy waffling on decisions. Most of them don’t require the amount of thought we give them.
